Birthing A Good Person

How many praises do you have?
Galatians 4:19 birthing saints
Selessness
Dezenterese
Selshness
Egoyis
Do unto others as you would to yourselves.
Matthew 7:12
Jesus sought others. The esh seeks its own.
Not my will but thy will be done!
Acts 2 and 4 displays selessness vs selshness
Acts 5 is when the church becomes the church because it learned how to deal with problems.
I am an overcomer!
1. What are you giving birth to for Jesus not you?
1. Ki sa wap bay pou Jezi pa ou menm?
It hurts when it’s BIG
2. How are you sacricing for it?
2. Ki jan w ap fè sakris pou li?
2025 the year of rebirths
2024 a tough year
Selshness is the environment for growth!
God wants you to choose Him not by force.
Ill: army action gures
Do you want people to hang out with you because you force them?
My fruit is not for me
The fruit on a tree is not for the tree
The more people here helps to lift the service- weight �
Jesus has given you something BIG
Jesus has given us something BIG
A BiG baby!
You have to start. Are you willing to start?
School
Family
Church
Business
Retire
Marriage
Ministry
Project
Others will thrive and GROW when you bring it to life!
The catalyst doesn’t change. I can be added to a situation or
temptations but realize it is temporary “temp” root.
https://hackspirit.com/signs-you-have-a-genuinely-good-heartaccording-to-psychology/
“You know the commandments: Do not kill, do not commit adultery,
do not steal, do not bear false witness, do not defraud, honor your
father and mother. [Exod. 20:12-16; Deut. 5:16-20.]”
Mark 10:19 AMPC
https://bible.com/bible/8/mrk.10.19.AMPC
“You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery.
[Exod. 20:14; Deut. 5:18.] But I say to you that everyone who so
much as looks at a woman with evil desire for her has already
committed adultery with her in his heart.”
Matthew 5:27-28 AMPC
https://bible.com/bible/8/mat.5.27-28.AMPC
“Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of
the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend
of the world is the enemy of God.”
James 4:4 KJV
https://bible.com/bible/1/jas.4.4.KJV
Proverbs 13:13 msg
“Ignore the Word and suffer; honor God’s commands and grow
rich.”
Proverbs 13:13 MSG
https://bible.com/bible/97/pro.13.13.MSG
God doesn’t want you to not sin because He don’t want you to have
fun. He doesn’t want you to sin because sin will kill you
prematurely.
Wages of sin is death!
You don’t help people the way you wanna help people you help
people for the way they want to be helped.
1) Empathy is your second
nature
There are so many human emotions, but among all
of them, empathy stands as a hallmark of a
genuinely good heart.
And it’s not just me saying this—psychology backs it
up.
In this article from Very Well Mind, Kendra Cherry,
MSEd, denes empathy as “the ability to emotionally
understand what other people feel, see things from
their point of view, and imagine yourself in their
place.”
More so, empathy is a complex interplay of both
cognitive and emotional processes. And people who
embody this naturally are often characterized as
having good hearts.
Empathy is the person who will sit with you when
you’re down, share in your excitement when you’re
up, and offer a shoulder when life gets tough.
Don’t get me wrong, having empathy doesn’t mean
you’re a pushover. It means you have the
remarkable ability to connect with others on a
deeper level.
2) You’re always there to
lend a hand
A couple of years ago, I was rushing to an important
meeting. As I hurried down the street, I noticed an
elderly woman struggling with her grocery bags.
Without a second thought, I stopped and helped her
carry her bags to her doorstep.
This automatic response to help did make me late
for my meeting, but it also made me realize
something important about myself: I valued kindness
over convenience.
This willingness to help others, even at your own
cost, is a strong sign that you have a good heart. It’s
called altruism.
According to Psychology Today, altruism is “acting to
help someone else at some cost to oneself.”
In my case, even if I was late to my meeting,
knowing that I helped someone made it all worth it.
That’s because altruism is all about seless concern
for the well-being of others. It’s the act of helping
without expecting anything in return.
It’s not for recognition or rewards, but for making
someone else’s day a little bit easier.
3) You practice forgiveness
Did you know that holding on to grudges can
actually be detrimental to your health?
Forgiveness, on the other hand, can lead to lower
levels of anxiety and depression, better heart health,
and even a stronger immune system.
But more than just being good for your health,
forgiveness is a key indicator of a genuinely good
heart. It’s letting go of resentment and anger towards
someone who has caused you harm.
It goes without saying that forgiveness doesn’t mean
forgetting or condoning the harm done to you.
Rather, it’s releasing the hold these negative
emotions have over you.
It’s choosing peace over revenge—love over hate.
4) You’re honest, even
when it’s hard
Honesty is more than just telling the truth. It’s being
genuine with yourself and others, even when it’s not
the most convenient route.
This authenticity is a trait of only those with a truly
good heart possess.
Psychology tells us that honesty is linked to moral
integrity. It shows respect for the truth and the
importance of building trust in relationships.
But let’s be clear: honesty doesn’t mean being
brutally blunt or insensitive. It means expressing
your feelings and thoughts sincerely, but also
tactfully.
In return, people nd you reliable, trustworthy, and
respectable.
5) You show respect to
everyone
In this article from Psychology Today, Cindy Watson
B.A., LLB, JD denes respect as the following:
“Respect—giving and getting—is an important factor
in negotiations and produces best outcomes.”
Simply put, this means that treating others with
respect is a manifestation of empathy and kindness.
Because when you respect others, they respect you
back—and it’s essential to creating healthy
relationships and fostering a positive environment.
But respect goes beyond mere politeness. It
involves listening to others, valuing their opinions,
and treating them as equals; it’s appreciating the
diversity and uniqueness in each person.
6) You feel genuine joy in
the happiness of others
There’s something absolutely beautiful about nding
pure joy in the happiness of others. It’s like a warm
glow that lights up your heart and reminds you of the
interconnectedness of all beings.
This profound experience is called “mudita” in
Buddhist philosophy.
In Sharon Salzberg’s book, Loving-Kindness: The
Revolutionary Art of Happiness, “mudita” is dened
as “the pleasure that comes from delighting in other
people’s well-being.”
In psychology, this is similar to the concept of
altruism. It’s an indication of selessness and
empathy.
It shows that you’re not just invested in your own
happiness, but also in the happiness of those
around you.
7) You’re not afraid to
show your emotions
I remember a time when I was watching a
heartwarming movie with a friend, and I found myself
tearing up at the emotional climax.
A friend who was watching with me was surprised,
remarking that they’d never seen me cry before.
That moment made me realize something important:
showing emotions is not a sign of weakness but a
sign of strength—of having a truly good heart.
When you’re able to show your true emotions as
another person is expressing their own to you, this is
a sign of emotional intelligence.
Mental Health America describes people with high
emotional intelligence as being able to “identify how
they are feeling, what those feelings mean, and how
those emotions impact their behavior and in turn,
other people.”
In short, genuinely expressing your emotions show
that you’re genuine—that you’re allowing yourself to
feel joy, sadness, anger, fear, all of which make us
human.
8) You’re a good listener
Good listening goes beyond just hearing what
someone is saying. It’s being present, showing
empathy, and understanding without judgment.
According to Very Well Mind, active listening is “a
communication skill that involves going beyond
simply hearing the words that another person
speaks.”
Having a good heart means you possess this quality.
You don’t just listen with your ears, but with your
heart as well. You understand that sometimes,
people don’t need advice or solutions. Sometimes,
they just need someone who will truly listen.
After all, a good listener isn’t just good company—
they’re a source of comfort in a world that often
doesn’t take the time to truly hear.
9) You strive to be better
The most telling sign of a genuinely good heart is
the continual striving for personal growth and
betterment. It’s recognizing your faults and making a
conscious effort to improve.
This article from The Harvard Business Review
explains how being self-aware makes us condent,
creative, decisive, and more effective
communicators.
This means that when you’re self-aware, you’re also
showing signs of emotional maturity and strength.
It means you’re not complacent with who you are but
are always striving to be the best version of yourself.
The easiest part of being a mother is giving birth the
hardest part is showing up each day.